How To Get Your Ex Back
Sunday, October 12th, 2008Ok, so you had a great, loving and passionate relationship with your boyfriend, girlfriend or spouse but for whatever reason things got a little rough and you decided to break up because you felt the relationship wasn’t working. However, deep down you still love this person and long for the relationship to be saved.
You can’t go through the day without thinking about your ex. You lose your appetite and you can’t sleep at night. You try to call them, send them text messages or IM hoping that they will get back to you and you can patch things up. You probably know what I’m talking about or maybe you’re even going through it right now.
Well, I have great news for you. All is not lost. At least not yet, but you need to act fast. But you also need to act wisely so that what you do doesn’t backfire on you. This will become clear to you in a minute.
The biggest question is, are there any magic words you can use to get your ex to return your phone calls? It may be hard to believe but there ARE words you can use that’s like casting a spell that will make your ex feel almost compelled to return your call. Sounds cool? Read on…
There is this “recipe for love” called The Magic of Making Up where a strategy to get your ex back is completely laid out.
Now let me briefly address one of the most commonly asked questions: “How do I get my ex to return my phone call?”
Fair warning, however. If you use this technique alone without an overall plan or strategy, you may actually damage your relationship more than if your ex boyfriend or girlfriend never returned your call.
First you need to know what NOT to say if you want to get your ex back.
Certain types of messages have been proven NOT to work most of the time. What’s worse is that they put you in a really bad psychological position. Therefore, you definitely want to avoid these types of messages. So what are they?
The first is the pleading or begging type of message such as this:
“Dave, can you please, please call me back?
This is the third time I have called.
I really HAVE to talk to you.”
The second is the “emergency” type of message like this one:
“Christine, this is an emergency!
Please call me as soon as you get this message!”
I believe you can see why those messages won’t be very effective in getting your ex to return your calls.
How To Use Curiosity & Self Interest To Your Advantage
Curiosity and self interest are two of the most powerful forces in the human mind. And here’s the big secret: combine the two, and you have a recipe that WILL work “magic”
So now let’s look at what you can say that has been proven to work almost every time.
In a calm and friendly tone say:
“Hi Tom, it’s Sandra.
I wanted to let you know I appreciate what you did for me.
Call me because I want to thank you in person.”
Can you see how that uses BOTH curiosity and self interest? Tom will NOT be able to resist! He will start thinking, “What did I do?” “What does she appreciate?” That will also make him feel good since it’s a positive message.
One more thing… before you call you need to do the “set up”, which is figuring out what (s)he did that you appreciate. It doesn’t have to be anything big but has to be plausible.
Again, it’s very important to have an underlying strategy like explained in the Magic Of Making Up System BEFORE you call.
If you don’t have an underlying strategy and your ex calls you back, you can actually do more damage than good if you don’t handle it correctly. In other words, what you do before, during and after you get your ex to return your call is more important than getting them to return your call. Hope that makes sense 
Watch the following video with a couple of case studies that will give you excellent tips to get your ex back. You’ll learn that something very common that you think is good to do can actually destroy your chances of getting your ex back. After you’re done watching, click on the link below it to get access to The Magic Of Making Up system. Good luck!
Remember, you can still get your ex back but you must act fast. So click (or copy and paste) this link now! http://www.coolinfolounge.com/making-up.html
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